I had been left speechless after reading an article
on Angelina Jolie’s double mastectomy. I
think this article needs to be shared and for my spiritual friends to be
discussed. Here is the article:
“MY MOTHER fought cancer for almost a decade and
died at 56. She held out long enough to meet the first of her grandchildren and
to hold them in her arms. But my other children will never have the chance to
know her and experience how loving and gracious she was. We often speak of “Mommy’s mommy,” and I find
myself trying to explain the illness that took her away from us. They have
asked if the same could happen to me. I have always told them not to worry, but
the truth is I carry a “faulty” gene, BRCA1, which sharply increases my risk of
developing breast cancer and ovarian cancer. My doctors estimated that I had an
87 percent risk of breast cancer and a 50 percent risk of ovarian cancer,
although the risk is different in the case of each woman. Only a fraction of
breast cancers result from an inherited gene mutation. Those with a defect in
BRCA1 have a 65 percent risk of getting it, on average. Once I knew that this
was my reality, I decided to be proactive and to minimize the risk as much I
could. I made a decision to have a preventive double mastectomy. I started with
the breasts, as my risk of breast cancer is higher than my risk of ovarian
cancer, and the surgery is more complex. On April 27, I finished the three
months of medical procedures that the mastectomies involved. During that time I
have been able to keep this private and to carry on with my work. But I am
writing about it now because I hope that other women can benefit from my
experience. Cancer is still a word that strikes fear into people’s hearts,
producing a deep sense of powerlessness. But today it is possible to find out
through a blood test whether you are highly susceptible to breast and ovarian
cancer, and then take action. My own process began on Feb. 2 with a procedure
known as a “nipple delay,” which rules out disease in the breast ducts behind
the nipple and draws extra blood flow to the area. This causes some pain and a
lot of bruising, but it increases the chance of saving the nipple. Two weeks
later I had the major surgery, where the breast tissue is removed and temporary
fillers are put in place. The operation can take eight hours. You wake up with
drain tubes and expanders in your breasts. It does feel like a scene out of a
science-fiction film. But days after surgery you can be back to a normal life.
Nine weeks later, the final surgery is completed with the reconstruction of the
breasts with an implant. There have been many advances in this procedure in the
last few years, and the results can be beautiful. I wanted to write this to
tell other women that the decision to have a mastectomy was not easy. But it is
one I am very happy that I made. My chances of developing breast cancer have
dropped from 87 percent to under 5 percent. I can tell my children that they
don’t need to fear they will lose me to breast cancer. It is reassuring that
they see nothing that makes them uncomfortable. They can see my small scars and
that’s it. Everything else is just Mommy, the same as she always was. And they
know that I love them and will do anything to be with them as long as I can. On
a personal note, I do not feel any less of a woman. I feel empowered that I
made a strong choice that in no way diminishes my femininity. I am fortunate to have a partner, Brad Pitt,
who is so loving and supportive. So to anyone who has a wife or girlfriend
going through this, know that you are a very important part of the transition.
Brad was at the Pink Lotus Breast Center, where I was treated, for every minute
of the surgeries. We managed to find moments to laugh together. We knew this
was the right thing to do for our family and that it would bring us closer. And
it has. For any woman reading this, I
hope it helps you to know you have options. I want to encourage every woman,
especially if you have a family history of breast or ovarian cancer, to seek
out the information and medical experts who can help you through this aspect of
your life, and to make your own informed choices. I acknowledge that there are
many wonderful holistic doctors working on alternatives to surgery. My own
regimen will be posted in due course on the Web site of the Pink Lotus Breast
Center. I hope that this will be helpful to other women. Breast cancer alone kills some 458,000 people
each year, according to the World Health Organization, mainly in low- and
middle-income countries. It has got to be a priority to ensure that more women
can access gene testing and lifesaving preventive treatment, whatever their
means and background, wherever they live. The cost of testing for BRCA1 and
BRCA2, at more than $3,000 in the United States, remains an obstacle for many
women. I choose not to keep my story
private because there are many women who do not know that they might be living
under the shadow of cancer. It is my hope that they, too, will be able to get
gene tested, and that if they have a high risk they, too, will know that they
have strong options. Life comes with
many challenges. The ones that should not scare us are the ones we can take on
and take control of.”
Of course after Angelina’s long frightening
article, there is the fan mail to share.
Here are only a few fan mails:
“Judy, Los Angeles
As I am nearing 40 with the BRCA gene, I have been
trying to decide when not if. I have not had the courage to face the mastectomy
concept, I am just trying to decide on the hysterectomy. Thank you so much for
the article. Angelina Jolie is the world's icon of a beautiful woman, so when
she has the courage to do something like that and share it with the world,
then, the simple press and exposure helps the rest of the BRCA carriers to be
viewed as less "extreme" when we do face the decision to do life
altering and possibly life changing surgeries.
When people hear about me doing something, they may
be more like, "Oh yeah, I have heard about people doing that before"
as opposed to, "That's crazy talk." I can't say thank you enough. “
“Susie, San francisco, CA
One of the most powerful Op-Ed pieces that I have
read. It really brings home to me just how important it is to be tested for the
BRCA1 gene.
My Mother had breast cancer and I was diagnosed
with Stage III breast cancer ten years ago. There are many people who look at
you with pity because you lose your breast/breasts to this terrible disease.
But I discovered that life goes on and with a good partner love goes on as
well.
Going public is the best gift that you can give
another woman in this situation. I have always admired you. You are a strong
woman and a wonderful role model for your beautiful children.”
“Kellie (Bam Bam) - Pleasanton, CA
Breast cancer has been a taboo subject for far too
long. I've been so vocal since my diagnosis, while many others I knew fighting
the same battle remained silent (because of either shame or embarrassment).
At 38 years old, with no family history, my cancer
diagnosis came out of left field. I was already at Stage II by the time I found
this life threatening lump. Why didn't I know that breast cancer could strike
even those who don't have a history in their families? And why didn't I know
that some women get this disease before the age of 40? Because I was ignorant.
Why aren't more of us unabashed about educating society about this disease?
There are preventive measures we can take. We need
to be proactive about our bodies and understand that if we have any genetic
mutations, we can be more diligent about getting our tests performed. Education
is key. No one should have to grieve for a loved one lost before their lifetime
is lived. Technology and medical advancements is a gift we have access to and
charities and donations are gifts we can give to those who do not have the
luxuries of paying for imaging and scans. We can help each other by standing up
and talking about it - and being outspoken - and not hiding in a corner because
society tells us to be ashamed.
Kudos to this courageous woman for bringing the
BRCA1 genetic testing subject to light. Many lives will be saved because of
this. “
“david 7680 - southwest
Bravo to you Ms. Jolie - and to all of the
anonymous, courageous women who have gone through this procedure. I have a dear
friend who also underwent proactive mastectomy for the same reason. She is
doing very well and no longer has nightmares - and her children are very
grateful. Thanks for sharing this with us. “
My two cents worth:
WOW!!!!! Is this for real? Have we actually become that frightened and
brain-washed? Do we think that by
removing our breasts and ovaries, we have dodged cancer? Really?
Have we not been seeing any of the many articles on cancer and why our
beautiful bodies behave as they do and why the cancer comes about? Have we not heard about the fact that the
genes don’t rule our destiny anymore and epigenetic research and what we knew
of them is old wives tale? Do we not
know that the cancer cells are present almost everywhere in our bodies and can
be activated? Are we ready to remove all organs next?
I am truly amazed at what I have read that words
cannot describe. Even worse than
Angelina’s decision is the suggestion that she is putting out there to frighten
the pants off all women to go and have their parts removed and have them
replaced with fake ones which have caused many cancers on their own. She goes further to let us know that “we have
a choice”. Stranger yet, we have ladies
and gents out there, congratulating the idea….LOL
My plea to all the ladies out there: Ladies, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, spend a
little bit of your busy time to understand the effects of your living
environment on your cells and their structure.
Spend time to get to know yourself inside out. Find out the effects of fear on your bodies. Find out what “fighting” can bring about and
what resistance can do.
Read about the new findings on genes and cancer and all other ailments. Find out about the emotional issues behind ailments. Before you cut yourselves into pieces in the fear of some disease, find out what makes a cell to behave that way.
I encourage you to spend this time on yourself. Cancer is not the monster the media has made it to be. Please spend the time. I cherish and appreciate your feedback.
Read about the new findings on genes and cancer and all other ailments. Find out about the emotional issues behind ailments. Before you cut yourselves into pieces in the fear of some disease, find out what makes a cell to behave that way.
I encourage you to spend this time on yourself. Cancer is not the monster the media has made it to be. Please spend the time. I cherish and appreciate your feedback.
Live in Light!
EL
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